My Story Behind the Script: Our Accidental Octopus Themed Wedding

When I started planning our wedding, I knew there were a few things I definitely wanted and one of those things was that I wanted our wedding to capture our personalities. I wanted our guests to walk into the space and not only feel welcomed, but almost feel like they were walking into our home. Like absolutely 100% yes this is Michelle and Ory.

And while I had a pretty good sense of how to get there, I also wanted to be sure that when it came down to it, Ory had some say in the planning process too and it wasn’t me just living out my own wedding fantasies.

So a few weeks into selecting our most important vendors, I asked Ory, “What’s the one thing you want to be sure we incorporate into our wedding?”

And y’all, I just didn’t see this one coming. “Octopi.”

I’ll be honest. These out of left field responses are definitely one of the reasons I fell for Ory. To this day, it still keeps our marriage interesting. But I’d be lying if I didn’t say that a small part of me started to panic. How the heck was I going to incorporate octopi into what I otherwise wanted to be a fairly classic and feminine wedding?

We immediately starting googling octopus weddings and I’ll be honest, the results weren’t really inspiring or comforting. But I couldn’t go back on my promise, so I set out to incorporate octopi into the wedding. And incorporate I did with the help of my mom, a few fabulous vendors including Alicia of A&P Designs and Laura of Ashton Events! Y’all, I was quite proud of the end result :)

And while initially octopi held no significant place in either of ours live at the time. They are now forever linked to the day we said I do.

Read on for some fabulous details (and the stories behind them!) from the best octopus themed wedding ever.

These octopi save the dates were the first place the octopus made an appearance. Alicia from  A&P Design Co  drew these vintage inspired octopi herself - incredible right? And the accompanying photo was a watercolor of our beachside reception venue. Photo by  A&P Design Co .

These octopi save the dates were the first place the octopus made an appearance. Alicia from A&P Design Co drew these vintage inspired octopi herself - incredible right? And the accompanying photo was a watercolor of our beachside reception venue. Photo by A&P Design Co.

When our guests arrived to  reception , they were greeted by this fun vintage beach sign. Lettered by me and built/painted by Ory.

When our guests arrived to reception, they were greeted by this fun vintage beach sign. Lettered by me and built/painted by Ory.

Ory comes from quite the handy family, so when we asked his dad and brother if they would build us some custom corn hole sets for the cocktail hour they were totally up for the challenge and made two different but perfectly complementary sets. And of course, one of them just had to feature the octopus :)

Ory comes from quite the handy family, so when we asked his dad and brother if they would build us some custom corn hole sets for the cocktail hour they were totally up for the challenge and made two different but perfectly complementary sets. And of course, one of them just had to feature the octopus :)

cocktail hour corn hole on the beach
My mom helped find some really cute furniture to decorate the bar area for our cocktail hour and this octopus pillow was one of my favorite subtle details.

My mom helped find some really cute furniture to decorate the bar area for our cocktail hour and this octopus pillow was one of my favorite subtle details.

wedding decor details vintage nautical
Family has always been important to both of us, so we wanted to be sure that family was a central theme in our wedding. This ode to our parents and grandparents weddings made for a great card table and guest book display and that vintage octopus plate? It was hand painted by Ory himself.

Family has always been important to both of us, so we wanted to be sure that family was a central theme in our wedding. This ode to our parents and grandparents weddings made for a great card table and guest book display and that vintage octopus plate? It was hand painted by Ory himself.

My mom found these super cute octopus paper weights which we used as place cards that I lettered. Our wedding was the very first wedding I ever did calligraphy for! I still to this day see these place cards in friends houses and I’d be lying if I didn’t say it made my heart so happy :)  A&P Design Co  also incorporated an octopus into the menus to subtly carry the theme over from our save the dates paper story.

My mom found these super cute octopus paper weights which we used as place cards that I lettered. Our wedding was the very first wedding I ever did calligraphy for! I still to this day see these place cards in friends houses and I’d be lying if I didn’t say it made my heart so happy :) A&P Design Co also incorporated an octopus into the menus to subtly carry the theme over from our save the dates paper story.

nautical organic wedding table setting

Y’all I seriously wish I could take you back to that day. But I hope these snippets gave you a sneak peak and a feel for how our octopus themed wedding was born. The biggest lesson learned during this process was that if you do want to have a theme to your wedding, it doesn’t have to be everywhere. A few well placed details can truly make all the difference.

bride and groom carlouel beach wedding

And if you’re currently in the midst of trying to incorporate what feels like apples and oranges into your big day. Know that where there’s a will, there’s a way. And if you don’t quite yet know what that way is, a solid vendor team can help you make that dream a reality <3

Happy Planning!


Romantic Garden Wedding Styled Shoot

Prepare yourself for all kinds of pretty.

When Tracey of Tracey Krick Photography reached out about working with her on a styled shoot, I was so incredibly grateful and excited - in case you can't tell, she's super talented. I remember looking at her inspiration boards and immediately knowing it would be pretty, but this pretty!?

Below is a sneak peak from the shoot which was recently featured on Borrowed and Blue. And at the bottom, you'll find a link to the feature as well as a vendor list. Enjoy :)

lena and matthew - romantic garden wedding inspiration
white romantic wedding cake
wedding dinner menu
Brasenhill Mansion

Click here to see more images from this amazing shoot!

Vendors:
Photography - Tracey Krick Photography
Bridal Shop - Casablanca Bridal Flagship Store
Flowers - Ever After Floral
Invitations & Calligraphy - Ma Belle Calligraphy
Cake - Cake A Fare
Hair & Makeup - BLU